Clarification

Hmmm, another day another stress. At times, I dont know how should I deal with this. Is this my problems or hers. Why she keep doing this. How d I response. Where should I put the line. I just dont know. If not because of my 2 boys, I d probably let her go already. Why keeping someone who can't appreciate you. Hey, let her go and just build a new life. People have done that. May be that is thr better way for me and her. But before letting her go, a few things must be settled. I am not sure whether I should get advice from a lawyer. Some one (if) has to go, then he/she should go entirely. Dont want to see her face. Dont want to listen to her voice. She has just to butt out.

Ok, a few questions I would ask her-

Can you explain 2 long calls?

Why the call made when I was not at home?

Why it should be 45 and over 60 min long?

Should tell her my feeling-

Sad

Humiliated

Frustrated

Do you know that I d be mad? So why still doing that?

Worry because can see that you response is superficial

What next steps?

How to ensure I will not get mad if I notice these instances again m

Would telling me be ok?

Maybe instead of me start talking, let just ask her to start. She can start wherever she likes. Then, I will talk when it comes to my turn. I dont want to me nyampuk.