Clarification

Hmmm, another day another stress. At times, I dont know how should I deal with this. Is this my problems or hers. Why she keep doing this. How d I response. Where should I put the line. I just dont know. If not because of my 2 boys, I d probably let her go already. Why keeping someone who can't appreciate you. Hey, let her go and just build a new life. People have done that. May be that is thr better way for me and her. But before letting her go, a few things must be settled. I am not sure whether I should get advice from a lawyer. Some one (if) has to go, then he/she should go entirely. Dont want to see her face. Dont want to listen to her voice. She has just to butt out.

Ok, a few questions I would ask her-

Can you explain 2 long calls?

Why the call made when I was not at home?

Why it should be 45 and over 60 min long?

Should tell her my feeling-

Sad

Humiliated

Frustrated

Do you know that I d be mad? So why still doing that?

Worry because can see that you response is superficial

What next steps?

How to ensure I will not get mad if I notice these instances again m

Would telling me be ok?

Maybe instead of me start talking, let just ask her to start. She can start wherever she likes. Then, I will talk when it comes to my turn. I dont want to me nyampuk.

sms ni buat aku confius

hello kawan2,

semalam nape tiba2 gatal nak cek sms bini aku ... and bila cek, mmg sah , ada sms yg bunyi pelik ... ni aku tulis balik exactly

sms ni di hantar rasanya jam 931 pagi, 13/12 ...... just sampai kat U, mmg mcm tak nak aku tau jer .. hahahahahah

'Hi, Gd morning. Miss me? Hahaha. Hw was ur weekend? I hv emailed u d images. Nanti free, tlg rvw ya. Waiting from utm to email me d sample of images recons using mimics. kalau dah dpt, i forward 2u. Thks'

aku tak pasti ni sms dia tanya si dyno tu samada si dyno tu miss dia ke atau dia confius yg dyno htr sms kat dia ckp rindu .. hmm .. aku pun tak tahu.

but, it seems ok lagi. kite tengok dulu, lama mana dia nak menggatal. and whether ini main2 atau betul2 ... aku tak boleh gopoh ... kena sabar. aku tak nak jadi org bias ... aku mesti kumpul evidences.

kalau dia main2 shj and dalam 1-2 bulan dah balik ke normal, ok ..... kite cuba sabarlah ..... kan? tapi kalau dia nak nak lebey2 ... then aku kene jaga aku punya maruah ... jgn jadik dayus ... org dayus tak masuk surga ...

hmmmm ... until next time

ntah le .. nape dia gatal hantar email kat si dyno tu?

NI BINI AKU PUNYA EMAIL KAT DYNO TU ... kalau hang ni orang, cuba hang pikir, patut ke hantar email mcm ni and claim email ni email jenis professional bukan email nak menggatal?

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